How Low Can You Go


>> Wednesday, November 14, 2012

     I am in a bad place, a really bad place.  I have zero motivation to do anything.  All I do is go to work, come home, watch TV and go to bed.  I don't want to blog, exercise or eat properly.  Things are out of control and I do not know what to do.  Today is day 14 of Hot Yoga Challenge and I have been about 8 times.   I just don't care.  I don't want to talk to my friends or family.  I cannot be bothered to make groceries.  I went for a trim on the weekend and she cut my hair unevenly.  So I had to go to another hairdresser and get my hair cut to even it out.  I was really trying to grow out my hair and now I am back to square one.  I hate it, I can't even look at myself in the mirror.  I know that it is only hair and eventually it will grow (who am I kidding, my natural hair grows as fast as molasses going up a hill in January).
     I don't know what I need but I need something. 


safire November 14, 2012 at 11:14 AM  

I'm sorry to hear that you are in a bad place. Another poster on my blog helped me once by telling me that I may be suffering from tunnel vision where I'm so focused on a few things that it's blurring the big picture. She suggested community service or something other than the things I'm focusing on to feel better.

I hope you can reach out to your support network. If you need someone to vent to, I'm here if you want to e-mail me. Just let me know.

You are amazing and we all have our slumps. I do hope you feel better and are in a better place soon.

Ms. FIT November 14, 2012 at 12:02 PM  

Sending you a ((HUG))! Sorry to hear you're feeling this way :-( We're entitled to feel blah sometimes. It's normal. Heck, I just returned from my blahcation.

*In my Dr. Phil's voice* Let's look at the positives:

Even though you didn't feel like blogging... YOU DID!

Even though you missed 6 days of yoga...YOU attended 8!

As for the hair, slap on some big earrings, lashes, a little makeup and WERK it! If you have to, schedule an appointment for a protective style and get movin!

We're giving you permission to embrace your funk for 2 more days. On Saturday, we expect you to be preparing yourself for a comeback on Monday. Deal?! Okay, great! *I heard you say yes* ;-)

We're here for you Chica!


Afronuts November 15, 2012 at 6:37 AM  

You need a big bear hug, some serious petting and an outing that will make you forget your worries!

Yum Yucky November 21, 2012 at 12:10 PM  

One word: PRAY!!! this is a job for the wonderful God Almighty. And He is able... xo

Shannie (akaSolidice242) November 21, 2012 at 5:45 PM  

I know just how you feel. I think I needed to read this I have bee avoiding everything lately cause I am in this funk but my mind lead me to read your blog. I really hope that you feel better soon...

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Yum Yucky December 3, 2012 at 10:39 AM  

Hi Haneefa! Stopped by to say hello. Hope you're doing well. xo

JuliN December 9, 2012 at 4:12 PM  

I'm sorry to read that you aren't doing well. Life comes in waves of good and bad, I hope that you can ride out this wave with support from your friends and family.

Reggie December 9, 2012 at 5:47 PM  

We're all in a bad place at times, don't feel like The Lone Ranger. It happens to all of us.

Focus Focus Focus

Anonymous,  December 19, 2012 at 10:44 AM  

Hey Miss H, just checking in on ya. I hope all is well with you.


MS. Bad Mama Jama December 24, 2012 at 11:59 PM  

Hugs to you! I am sending good vibes your way....

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